Transference is the beginning of your human design experiment
the not-self deserves more credit
THE ORIGIN OF TRANSFERENCE
The origin of our experience is mostly defined by the other side of who we are.
In Human Design, the concept of Transference is defined by binaries, meaning that everything has its opposition. Within the opposition we integrate, however we don't always appreciate this concept of Transference.
I've wrote an entry before on the importance of Transference, I encourage you to check it out.
THE APPEAL OF TRANSFERENCE
Do you feel pulled in to the opposite of what your Human Design tells you?
If you have a hanging 45 do you feel attracted to control, or by people and circumstances with the themes of control?
If your Motivation is Innocence, do you ever feel drawn to circumstances where you want to follow what you desire?
This doesn't mean you're doing something bad in your experiment with Human Design. As humans we live in binaries, not necessarily the opposites attract bit but more so that we are our oppositions, because what we are not is going to be defined by the other. We are helpless, and surrendering to that is the key to choosing our destiny, because we get to manage what we are instead of what we are not.
So nourish this opposition, welcome transference in your life. Sometimes we become stagnant because we prohibit ourselves of what our bodies want to experience before we understand what it is.
If you find yourself in a situation where me telling you to listen to your transference feels like you're allowed to breathe, you've made transference the enemy.
This isn't a right or wrong decision, this is an inevitable one.
Transference isn't eviL
Doing your human design wrong isn't a thing, and knowing yourself by understanding what you're not isn't prohibited.
In the face of decision making, are you following your Strategy and Authority or are you sticking to a manual of moral compasses?
Transference is the mirror to Strategy and Authority, because it allows you to go back to being in control of who's making the decisions in your life. Transference puts you back in reminding yourself that you can be the opposite of what you're going through.
Transference is being human.
xoxo, dens
