The importance of Transference in Human Design
How transference is telling a bigger story
Transference in terms of Human Design, is the state we go through when we're in our Not-Self. Here's an example of Transference using Motivation, this is what happens when we are in resistance and not living our design.
Transference gets a bad rep, so here's another perspective about it so you can gain awareness and understand that this is simply part of the duality in our lives.
- Transference is you being in resistance:
Because you’re not being you, you’re forcing something perhaps due to conditioning. As a Generator are you trying to initiate rather than to respond? Perhaps you're feeling Frustration instead of Satisfaction.
- Transference is your not-self also gaining awareness :
Because your Not-self is naturally part of who you are, this is how you come to understanding your limitations and who you're not.
- Transference is conditioning in action:
Because the way you learned and were taught to behave dictated your decision making, and when this is conflicting to who you really are and decide to ignore it, conditioning reveals the essence of your Not-self.
- Transference is inevitable:
This is called the human experience, we are not here to avoid transference or to deem it. Transference offers awareness and observing it is what helps us become a more whole self and who we were before conditioning. Without transference we don’t know ourselves because we don't get to meet the other side of who we are to accept our whole nature.
- Transference is necessary:
Taking on the previous note, transference is necessary for our development. The “illusion of our separateness” emphasizes transference. Understanding it helps us accept ourselves and others.
- Transference is conditional:
If you are afraid of surrendering to your authority, transference offers a conditional option as well, which is the opposite of your signature.
- Transference is the perfect opportunity for self-reflection and possible development:
Again, awareness through transference offers its polarity, embracing this polarity gets you closer to who you are. Transference is a great key to unlocking your potential.
xoxo, denisse
